Be Careful How You Interpret the World

“Be careful how you interpret the world: It is like that.” -Erich Heller

I came across this quote and it has been stuck in my mind.

 In my world, there are scans, tumor growth, the chloroplast mask, the radiation. It’s easy to live with a “poor me” mentality but that is over. I have decided that it is “BLESSED me.”

Thank you, Lord, for medical technology!

I am lucky! I have a benign tumor. There is a treatment for my tumor. There is an 85% chance that treatment will be effective. If my vision is altered in one eye, I have another fully functional eye. The side effects to the Cyberknife treatments are typically very tolerable. The Barrows, where I will receive my treatment, is one of the leading neuro treatment centers in the world.

I have so much to be thankful for. That is how I will interpret the world.

My treatment dates are scheduled for July 11, 12, 13, 16 &17. The plan could change after further mapping of the brain is completed, but for now I will do three days on, have the weekend off (in an attempt to preserve the optic nerve) and then complete treatment that Monday and Tuesday.

Will you pray that I remain mentally strong and that I can focus on the positive and not the negative in my current situation? As I journey along this path, I would ask for prayer that the doctors involved would be flawless, that I would tolerate treatment well, and that the treatment would be successful. Thank you.

My Treatment Is Moving Forward

Another week passes and things are moving forward with my treatment. While at lunch yesterday, I received a phone call from my radiation oncology office. They were calling to schedule my MRI, CT-Scan, and chloroplast mask molding (all the prep-work for my Cyberknife procedure). So, with an upbeat, chipper voice, I thanked the scheduler for getting me in so quickly. Monday at 6:50 a.m. works for me!

Holy cow! One minute I’m enjoying Chipotle with my sister, the next minute my head is spinning with thoughts of the early-morning check-in to the hospital and getting hooked up to an IV. I knew this was coming, of course, and in the big scope of my life, these are truly benign events. I am thankful that Monday’s appointments will be simple. I have been through all of this before, with the exception of the lovely new mask they’re making. These procedures are really not the end of the world.

And then, in a flash, it DOES feel like it’s the end of the world! Like lightning flashing, my mind quickly strikes to a not-so-positive place. There is fear, anxiety, laser beams to my head and tears. “I want this to end!” I mentally plead. “Can’t someone make it all go away??” I hear my doctor’s words from the last appointment: “Your tumor is growing back,” and “we must act quickly.”

When did this become my life?!

I’m striving to maintain the perspective that it will all be OK. There is, after all, an 85% chance that this treatment will be effective. We will not know for 6-12 months, but the odds are in my favor. And although this entire process has come with some ups and downs, there is an enormous blessing that I have received; it’s called humility, perspective and dependence. Without this trial in my life, I would not be where I am spiritually. Now, I wake up every morning feeling thankful for my vision and immensely thankful for my God. I am thankful that He saved me three years ago when the prognosis was grim. I am thankful that I have a friend in Jesus and that while I am being wheeled around the hospital on Monday, He will be right there with me. Clearly, the blessings outweigh the difficulties. The Lord will carry me through this.

As I walk through this, can I ask that you would keep me in your prayers? Sometimes all of this is so overwhelming that I don’t even know what I need or what I need to pray for, so I’m closing with this verse. Even if you aren’t sure what to pray, I am thankful that God knows what I need.

“In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. And he who searches out hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance with God’s will.” Romans 8:26-27

Update

Few times in my life have I felt as though I were in the true presence of greatness: extreme excellence you can see and hear in every word. Dr. Youssef is one of those people.

He is caring, communicative and brilliant. And he is heading up the plan moving forward for my treatment.

I knew I wasn’t getting the news I’d been hoping for when the nurse lightly knocked on our door and introduced herself with a video in hand that the Dr. requested Rex and I watch. He had reviewed my MRI’s from the past three years and before he met with us, he requested we watch the “Cyberknife” video. My stomach churned as we viewed the short video. I’m not certain I comprehended all that was said as my body went into some sort of shock, but there was detailed footage of a patient undergoing the procedure, so I got the drift.

As it turns out, Cyberknife is the best option for my case. I could feel the disappointment in Dr. Youssef’s voice. He was concerned that I had not been referred to him for radiation sooner. He explained that we have limited time to radiate the tumor without radiating the optic nerve. He explained that the sooner we treat, the better. I have now been referred to a neuro-opthamalogist and a second neurosurgeon, have a scrip for an MRI and have plans for a mask to be molded to my face for the procedure. Can you say…overload??

Dr Y would like all of this to take place in the next few weeks so we can begin the 3-5 day Cyberknife procedure. The procedure will be 30-60 minutes a day, for 3-5 days. These variables will not be decided upon until the detailed MRI is read. There are risks of headache, lethargy and a small increased risk of cancer, which are all acceptable risks to take in order to avoid another brain surgery.

I am so blessed to be not only in the care of the one great physician, God, but also an entire team of incredible physicians. This is a non-invasive procedure. I should tolerate it fine. I am thankful that a benign tumor is my problem and not something worse.

While I am mostly calm and good to go, the strong waves of unsettledness arise with no warning or respect for where I am or what I am doing. My poor Starbucks barista! I instantly fall away from positive and logical reasoning and into pity-party mode, accompanied by tears. “This cannot be happening! I want this to be over! Why can’t this end? What if they nick the wrong area in my brain?” I could go on and on.

Psalm 27:1 “The Lord is my light and my salvation. Whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life, of whom shall I be afraid?”

Fear is a dark cloud in our lives. It envelopes us and cages our soul to sit in loneliness. We have all experienced fear at some time in our lives- fear of rejection, misunderstanding, uncertainty, sickness, possibly even death. We can conquer fear. If we choose to rely on the Lord, we can dispel the strongholds of fear. We have to focus on the “Lord being our light and salvation,” just as the Psalmist says.

Will you pray for me? Pray for my anxiety and fear to be absent and for the doctors involved in my case to be flawless in their work. Also pray that I would tolerate the treatment well, and that the long-term results would be the tumor shrinking or (at minimum) no additional growth. I appreciate all of your encouragement, support, friendships and especially your prayers, more than you will ever know.

 

Ignoring reality does not make it go away

Frustration looms. I have written numerous posts over the past few months and never felt it was quite right for publishing, and now I am on the eve of a big appointment and wish I had shared with other people sooner.

As it turns out, ignoring reality does not make it go away.

For months now, I have known about my appointment tomorrow, and decided not to think about it because it was so far away. Now it is tomorrow and I am not settled with the potential outcome.

I have been referred to a radiation oncologist. My tumor has not grown large, but has become dense. My neurosurgeon referred me out to see if it is indeed time for radiation. All I could think was, "Really? Really??" I passionately desire for this to be over and for a wellness card to be sent to my address stating that everything is good.

Until that happens, I’m asking you all for prayer. Pray that I will be strong and that the doctors will have wisdom, knowledge and experience on their side while treating me.

Will you pray that whatever they recommend, I will have peace about it?

Jeremiah 29: 11 states, “For I know the plans that I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

“We’re all encouraged by a leader who stirs us to move ahead, someone who believes we can do the task he has given us all the way. God is that kind of leader. He knows the future, and his plans for us are good and full of hope. As long as God, who knows the future, provides our agenda and goes with us as we fulfill his mission, we can have boundless hope. This does not mean that we will be spared pain, suffering or hardship, but that God will see us through to a glorious conclusion. “ Life Application Study Bible, Zondervan.

It could be a benign appointment. The possibility exists of doing treatment immediately, as well as the possibility of doing it at a later date. Tomorrow I will hear the recommendation.

Awaiting my glorious conclusion-